THE PROJECTOR STRUGGLE IN RELATIONSHIPS
A class that explores the common relationship conundrums that Projectors experience.
When, Where, Duration.Friday, August 28th at 9:00am PST for 3 hours, live on zoom and recorded.
Price, Access.$150 USD, to participate in the Q+A you will need to attend the live class, otherwise the recording will be sent within 3 days to all who signed up.
TOPICS
Projectors can only handle so much stimulation (or absorb so much of the other). Having kids and being responsible for them is a drain for our energy, which is manageable - if it’s our only “job”, but if we are also trying to be personally successful, it’s nearly impossible to have the energy for both. We do not regenerate. We need to release and recharge and that’s a major challenge with children.
ChildrenMany Projectors struggle with romantic relationships because they have a desire to know the other deeply, but also a need to take space and empty out. This makes traditional, cohabitating relationships very challenging for the Projector to maintain. The need to have personal space in a relationship can also be very expensive which puts further pressure on the Projector to be financially successful.
LoveRelations can expect to be a priority for your attention without the awareness that you truly don’t have any available to give. Your family may mistake your lack of attention for lack of caring rather than lack of energy. Additionally, if you didn’t grow up with another Projector, you have likely felt misunderstood by your family for your whole life.
FamilyUnless the Projector is emotionally defined - there is no drive (solar plexus) and no availability (sacral) for it. Sex becomes about experiencing the other, and sexuality and preferences are often majorly influenced by the partner of choice. Shockingly, Projectors are often unmotivated by sex and can go without for long periods of time quite easily.
SexHas everything to do with vulnerability and nothing to do with sex. Projectors want to get more naked with your soul than your body so they struggle to connect with people who over emphasize the physical aspects of relationships rather than the emotional, spiritual, or psychological. Projectors often lose interest in any form of physical connection that doesn’t expand the emotional connection.
IntimacyThose cute creatures have a way of never leaving our sides. They become another responsibility that we need to use our limited energy to care for, and they rarely pay our bills or clean up after themselves. BUT - They can also be gentle regulating companions that help us unwind when other nine centered beings are too much. Truthfully, many Projectors prefer pets to partners.
PetsWe’re simultaneously the most effective in a 1:1, and the most drained by it. That can feel like being stuck in a loop of trading time for money since you need to be focused on (aurically penetrating) the client to give them the best guidance. As non energy types - to interfere with our money is to interfere with our access to energy. That means the relationships that take priority need to have an energetic or financial return.
ClientsProjectors can only handle so many aura’s at a time before we are overwhelmed, overstimulated, depleted, and need to take alone time. That means that every relationship should provide you with something in return for your attention. This doesn’t make Projectors transactional, it makes them synergistic. Projectors believe in reciprocity and mutual benefit in all relationships.
Auras
Before class, ask yourself these questions;
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Let’s take a look at your core penta.
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What value does this person give to you, and what value do you give to them?
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Let’s notice who isn’t actually that beneficial for you, and why.
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These are the relationships we want to pay more attention to.
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Do you have a good variety of aura types (energies, perspectives, and purposes) around you?

